There is no us and them there is only us. Our boundaries are only there to indicate what one is responsible directly for in this whole sacred web of life. In our bodies we have many boundaries of membranes and other structures, to help it organise itself effectively, but our left hand does not fight with its right hand. It works together harmoniously knowing they are interconnected and together can do so much more. Indirectly we do have more responsibilities to be thankful for the support that we and our families are given, but we also have a responsibility to contribute our best to the whole.